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Mary Hopke and Stadnyck Family uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, December 18, 2024
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Hubert Chan posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 17, 2024
老陈家一共八兄弟姊妹，你就是我们的老大。但说也奇怪虽然也算大家庭，但我们都是聚少离多。我，十几岁就离开香港。其他兄弟姊妹也在不同时间到个别地方生活。
妳就更加奇怪跟着儿女跑到美国的东岸！就是这样我们只能在电话裏聊天，见面的机会根本不多。
一转眼八兄弟姊妹都几乎年过半百，亦开始有离开人间的時間！
我们虽然在不同地方生活，但似乎感情仍然很浓。
老二同你都相继到天堂生活。相信，不久嘅将来大家可能都在同一个地方相遇！
心裏有很多感谢嘅说话，但都只能藏于心裏。日后天堂见面再聊！[Worship][Worship][Worship]
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Monday, December 16, 2024
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Andy Mei uploaded photo(s)
Monday, December 16, 2024
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Dear Grandma Sui
Though you have left this world, the love, kindness, and wisdom you shared will forever remain in our hearts. I feel so fortunate to have known you and to have been embraced by your warmth and generosity.
Your legacy of love and strength will continue to inspire us, and your memory will be cherished always. Rest peacefully, knowing you made a difference in the lives of all who knew you.
With love,
Andy Mei
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Kaylee & Hailey Ng uploaded photo(s)
Monday, December 16, 2024
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We missed you Tai Paw
Tai Paw, you were the heart of the family, a source of love, wisdom, and endless stories. I’ll always cherish the moments we shared, your warm hugs, and the lessons you taught us. Thank you for showing us what it means to live with kindness and grace. You’ll always be in our heart, and we’ll carry your love with us every day. Rest peacefully
Love your great granddaughters:
Kaylee and Hailey Ng
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Thursday, December 12, 2024
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Tuesday, December 10, 2024
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Tuesday, December 10, 2024
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Kathy Kehl uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, December 10, 2024
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Tuesday, December 10, 2024
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Tuesday, December 10, 2024
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ANTHONY LEUNG uploaded photo(s)
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Mom, you will forever live in my heart
My mom believed in quality of life more than longevity. She always said, if one day she did not wake up from her dream, do not be sad. Instead, be happy and celebrate for her. So, today we are here to be happy and to celebrate, because that was exactly how my mom passed away before joining my father who has been waiting for her in heaven for almost two years.
When I was cleaning up some of my mom’s belongings. I Found a foldable alarm clock that my mom always kept dearest by her side right next to her bed. When unfolded, one side is the LED screen that is no longer tell time, the other side is an old picture of me when I was a little boy. I seat next to my mom and with my dad also sitting next to her. In that picture, my mom kept me close to her, arm wrapped around me. She had a warm loving smile of fulfillment as if she was telling everyone, at that moment, that she had the entire world of happiness with her.
So, yes. Carol, my dearest sister, I have always been mom’s favorite child. That picture is the solid proof!
Being my mom’s favorite child did come with obligations. I would need to be able to endure her constant preaching, straight discipline, her odds sense of humors and high expectations. If I ever said one thing that was not to her likings, I would get hours, if not, days of preaching from mom until she believed that I finally got her points. Anything she said became the law in our household. For the past 63 years of my life, in front of my mom, there was never the right or wrong way. It was always the mom’s way. Her wishes were my command.
To me, mom is gentle but needs to be approached with respect. She is kind and loving but not to be taken for granted. She is approachable but not naïve nor gullible. To us all in our house, she is protective and without a doubt, center and the brain of the entire family.
Despite being an authoritative figure in the family, mom is very down to earth. She was always there to listen and talk to. In fact, every single one of us in the house found comfort and peace after talking to mom, as if the family has a psychologist whom we could reach out to 24/7. When I felt victorious or lost, mom was always the first person I would look for to share. To the others, my mom was approachable and often funny. However, when dealt with me, her sense of humors could sometime be a bit odd. With me, mom liked to deliver her punch lines in a sarcastic way. It was like throwing daggers of humor at me, and mom always ended up the only one who laughed. My mom instill in me the principles of life and doing things, she always said, “To become successful you need to accept and not run away from responsibilities, have good sense of time management. Be countable, be helpful, be generous and be courteous to others. When you possess all those qualities, you will never end up walking the wrong path in life.”
Even though, my mom is very straight with me but deep down I know she is my biggest fan. She always supports me in everything I do, and she is my biggest cheerleader too.
Whatever I do, I always know that mom will be standing somewhere watching me. Just like now, I know that she is up there looking down on me now, paying attention to every single word I said. The only difference this time is that I will no longer be able to hear from her summarizing everything I said and telling me where I could have done better.
Mom, you were the center of my life, and I am going to miss you very much. You will live on forever in my heart. I will never forget the wisdom you passed down and all the wonderful things you taught me throughout my life. I will cherish all the amazing memories we have until we meet again someday.
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Serena Lam uploaded photo(s)
Friday, December 6, 2024
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Dear Dai Yee Ma,
I still remember fondly the time you and Dai Yee Cheung came to live with us for a few months before you moved to Canada. I remember the transition of you both moving in was seamless as If you had always lived with us.
You were always full of wisdom and had such presence about you. I know as I grew up I didn’t get to see you as much as perhaps I would have liked but I am so grateful that Mollie got to meet you a few times. She always enjoyed her visit to see her Dai Yee Po and will always have fond memories of Long Island.
From you I learnt the importance of family connections and to never forget where we came from. You were so tenacious and strong and your mind always sharp.
I hope you are now reunited with Dai Yee Cheung and looking down and feeling proud of your family.
Till we meet again
Lots of love,
Serena
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LiAnn uploaded photo(s)
Friday, December 6, 2024
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Simon Lam uploaded photo(s)
Friday, December 6, 2024
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Dear 大姨媽,
Carol 表姐 assures us that in heaven, there's no language barrier. Perhaps because language is not needed? But anyway, I'm sure that whatever I write, in whatever language I write, you'll get the gist of what I'm trying to say. So here we go.
There's no other way to say this. I'm sorry to hear of your passing. It's been a while since we last met. We visited just before covid hit, and I brought my kids. Little did I know that would be the last time we would see each other.
It doesn't really seem like a long time ago since I have been hearing you give your signature 大姨媽 style life advice. It seemed you always had something wise and authoritative to say about life. You probably have little idea how your words have shaped generations of "Chan clan" children. I still don't rub my tummy after a big meal, because you told my impressionable young mind that that would cause a large belly! There are more important lessons that I learned from you.
As I have gotten older, I now realise that no teacher remains unaffected by the learner. Sometimes I wonder if you learned your wisdom simply by being the big sister, the mother, the big aunt, and confidently and generously sharing your thoughts with your family and friends. Learning from us as we were learning from you.
I'm glad I took the opportunity before covid to visit with my kids. As you can see from the photo, they were receiving wisdom from you even as they were saying goodbye while you were giving them lai see. I know that you made a big impression, and they learned something new about family thay day.
I am sure that you are now reunited with 大姨丈 and have a brand new network of souls to talk with. If you miss us and curious about how we are doing, perhaps you could watch over us from time to time.
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Maria, Paul, and Grace purchased flowers
Friday, December 6, 2024
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Conrad Nickerson uploaded photo(s)
Friday, December 6, 2024
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Dear Sue:
I may not have communicated with you in life, but I heard a lot about you. You are the supreme Sister
the Chan family. You are well respected and looked upon as the leader of the family.
Here is a poem that my adopted grandson wrote, it was used in Anna's funeral. and I thought it was appropriate for this situation.
Temporarily
Losses are not final
Leaving doesn"t mean gone
Apart for just a while
The memories will live on.
Separation cannot sever.
We'll all be united once more.
Then the joy of being together
will be greater than ever before!
Although it breaks the heart
How short the time will be
Yes we are apart
But temporarily!
44 years ago, you were with Anna, in a brink of an
eye, you are with her now. Praising and singing with the God of most high. In the not too far future, we shall meet again.
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Wednesday, December 4, 2024
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Wednesday, December 4, 2024
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Dear Mama,
I know the last years without Yeye was harsh for you. I hope that when you rejoin Yeye now you will be happier and enjoy your next journey with Yeye. While your time on Earth has gone, you will be missed.
I know we have not been the closest, but deep down, I know you cared for everyone in your own way. There is a reason why many people look up to you. I bid you farewell for now and we will meet again someday in heaven. Until then, you will always be remembered.
May you rest in peace.
Douglas
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Tuesday, December 3, 2024
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LiAnn posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 3, 2024
Paw Paw liked to describe many things in her life as "very strange," including herself. I began to realize that it made more sense to replace "strange" with "special." She was very special. From the outside it didn't always seem like we fully understood each other as we both struggled to practice our Mandarin each time we spoke, but I could always feel what she meant. Even without the nuances of verbal communication we had taken for granted with others, we could still talk for hours. When we did, it was like getting a Masterclass in how life should be done. I soaked up these pearls of wisdom and gratitude. Paw Paw found meaning and appreciation in almost everything. She found comfort in patterns and motifs in her life, and always trusted her intuition. She urged me to do the same, even if my intuition was going to lead me in a different direction than what she had felt for herself. One of my favorite things about Paw Paw was that she exuded abundance. She knew so firmly that God would take care of her and her family that she didn't have to worry too much about anything at all. Our conversations were full of anecdotes from her life that proved this again and again. She was kind and generous in the way she took care of people, in any way she could. She was unyielding when she knew something wasn't right. She knew exactly what she liked and what she didn't like, but was still open to trying new things especially when her grandkids were the ones showing her. Whether it was sampling new restaurants or learning new technology, she approached it all with a sense of curiosity and amusement. Paw Paw enjoyed her life fully and truly. Paw Paw, I hope you are delighting in unlimited cups of creamy coffee and seafood platters in heaven. I will miss you very much.
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Dear Big Sister:
This is for you: Beyond the sunset
Beyond the sunset, O blissful morning, When with our Savior heaven is begun. Earth's toiling ended O glorious dawning; Beyond the sunset when day is done.
Beyond the sunset, no clouds will gather, No storms will threaten, no fears annoy; O day of gladness, O day unending, beyond the sunset, eternal Joy!
Beyond the sunset, a hand will guide me, To God, the Father, whom I adore, His glorious presence, his words of welcome, will be my portion on that fair shore.
Beyond the sunset, O glad reunion, with our dear loved ones who've gone before, in that fair homeland, we'll know no parting, beyond the sunset, forever more!
Big Sister, I will always remember you as a very discipline, strong willed, no non sense person, May you have a delighted reunion with Big bro, Anna and Stephen. May we always feel your presence beyond the sunset. Love you Sis No. 7
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Kenneth Liu posted a condolence
Sunday, December 1, 2024
親愛的大姨媽，知悉您的離逝實在太突然及傷心; 兒時在彌敦酒樓，公主臺….. 的影像一一重現在腦海。早前和Tracy 還在商討什麼事候可以帶埋媽咪一齊過嚟探望你，現在您離開了，我只能從回憶中記掛住您，願您安息！
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Carol Ng uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, December 1, 2024
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Mom, you said that we MUST find the origami ring that Jason made for you when he was in elementary school.
It took a while, but we found it. Phew!
You are going to look great when you see dad in your favorite shirt and vest . We make sure you have the dove pins from the kids.
Mom, make sure you find time to read the book from LiAnn and Jason.
Miss you dearly !
Love ,
Your favorite daughter
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Sunday, December 1, 2024
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Today, we remember Sui Lin Chan, my mother in-law, whose spirit touched every life she encountered. Although she is always stern on what she said, but her kindness to her grandchildren and great-grand children is boundless. Her love and dedication for her family and friends, unwavering. She may be gone now, but her memory will forever live in our hearts.
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Sunday, December 1, 2024
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The Chen Family planted a tree in memory of Sui Chan
Sunday, December 1, 2024
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親愛的太婆：
您的離世讓我們深感哀痛，這個家庭失去了最受尊敬的長輩。您是我們家的中流砥柱，用您的智慧和慈愛滋養了幾代人。今天，我帶著無盡的感恩與思念，向您致以深深的告別。
太婆，您的一生是勤奮與樸實的典範。無論生活中遇到什麼挑戰，您總是以堅強樂觀的態度面對一切。您對家庭無私的奉獻和對子孫的關懷，讓我們每個人都感受到愛的溫度。您的智慧和仁愛，如和煦春風，教會我們真誠待人、珍惜家庭。
我還記得，您總是貼心地為曾孫們準備他們喜愛的零食與小禮物，或者帶她們外出共進午餐。孩子們最喜歡與您在一起，那些輕鬆愉快的時光成為了他們最珍貴的回憶。您耐心地分享往事，讓我們學會了珍惜當下，懷抱感恩的心過好每一天。
作為您的外孫媳婦，我深感榮幸能成為這個溫暖大家庭的一員。您的仁愛和智慧深深影響了我，您的言行讓我明白家庭的和諧需要用心經營。我承諾將用心照顧好孩子們，讓他們記住太婆的愛與教誨，將這份溫暖傳承下去。
親愛的太婆，您的離去讓我們依依不捨，但我們知道，您終於可以與太公重聚，在另一個世界中獲得安寧與幸福，再無病痛的折磨。請放心，我們會用心守護這個家，延續您對家庭的愛與希望。
願您在天堂安詳喜樂。您的微笑與慈愛，將永遠留存在我們的記憶中，陪伴我們走過每一個日子。感謝您，太婆，願您安息。
永遠懷念您的，
外孫媳婦 ：SANDY 敬輓
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Wednesday, November 27, 2024
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